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Fun quiz. I’m partially addicted, so it says. But then again I normally only drink one coffee and that’s it. I had like 3 cups today though… LOLOL. What did you get?

tanaittsweetheart said: I guess the best thing for you to do if you still care about him is telling him how you completely feel

Ha… ha…. aha…. hell no.

1. I don’t want to marry him. I’m certain of that. I believe that if you’re with someone who you can’t see yourself marrying then it’s just using the person regardless of your feelings. 

2. It would be pointless to start something when there is clearly no future in it even if he did feel the same. I don’t even know if I even do feel anything for him. I’ uncertain.

3. And I’m not trying to be a homewrecker. LOL. I told him I don’t want to get in between him and his gf.

4. Would I have a fling with him again? Sure. Long term commitment? Hell no. He’s just not that type of guy. And knowing he’s unfaithful is a huge turn off for me when it comes to long term relationships.

5. Do I care about him as a person? Hell yeah. We shared a lot with each other. That mutual bond is not going to disappear for a really really long time from my memory. And even though we’ve stopped communication, that hasn’t changed the fact that I still want what’s best for him. I want him to find the things that he’s looking for. I want him to be happy.

He was in a bad spot when we met and I helped him out of that a little bit. Knowing what I know about him, it just seems like he is rushing with this girl out of desperation. I don’t think she’s going to make him happy one or two or five years down the road. I know some people are going to be like, “oh you have no right to say that you don’t know anything about her.” But I’m just concerned he’s making a mistake by rushing it. I’m happy he found someone who makes him happy now. But how long is that going to last? 

However, I can’t just dump all of that on him. He probably won’t listen, and it would just make matters worse for them. So no thanks. Sometimes it’s better to keep your mouth shut. 

I’m going to call him and tell him congrats on the engagement. And maybe see if we can hang out one last time before he gets married because I know once that happens we’ll basically never talk again. Which is sad, but that’s life. It moves on anyway, and we don’t get any younger.